[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/snazite-se-sve-dite-napominat-nebo-i-pochopit\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/snazite-se-sve-dite-napominat-nebo-i-pochopit\/","headline":"Sna\u017e\u00edte se sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b napom\u00ednat nebo i pochopit?","name":"Sna\u017e\u00edte se sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b napom\u00ednat nebo i pochopit?","description":"My dosp\u011bl\u00ed, u\u017e vid\u00edme v\u011bci takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 jsou. Na\u0161e emoce u\u017e um\u00edme ovl\u00e1dat, kontrolujeme jejich intenzitu a k probl\u00e9m\u016fm se stav\u00edme po dlouh\u00e9m p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed rozumn\u011b a adekv\u00e1tn\u011b. Kdy\u017e jste rodi\u010d a m\u00e1te doma mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nebo v\u00edce d\u011bt\u00ed, ur\u010dit\u011b rozum\u00edte situaci, \u017ee se ne jednou doma vyto\u010d\u00edte natolik, \u017ee si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te: \u201eTo u\u017e opravdu nen\u00ed...","datePublished":"2025-03-05","dateModified":"2025-03-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b86e461e91a792eb6523c2667396c9868de382fea5dd80e25dc0d9e030173b65?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b86e461e91a792eb6523c2667396c9868de382fea5dd80e25dc0d9e030173b65?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"welery.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a312039_w2056_t1523090400.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a312039_w2056_t1523090400.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/snazite-se-sve-dite-napominat-nebo-i-pochopit\/","wordCount":483,"articleBody":"My dosp\u011bl\u00ed, u\u017e vid\u00edme v\u011bci takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 jsou. Na\u0161e emoce u\u017e um\u00edme ovl\u00e1dat, kontrolujeme jejich intenzitu a k probl\u00e9m\u016fm se stav\u00edme po dlouh\u00e9m p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed rozumn\u011b a adekv\u00e1tn\u011b. Kdy\u017e jste rodi\u010d a m\u00e1te doma mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b nebo v\u00edce d\u011bt\u00ed, ur\u010dit\u011b rozum\u00edte situaci, \u017ee se ne jednou doma vyto\u010d\u00edte natolik, \u017ee si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te: \u201eTo u\u017e opravdu nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9\u201c.A ono skute\u010dn\u011b, nen\u00ed! Ale jen to, \u017ee nech\u00e1pete sv\u00e9 d\u011bti natolik, abyste mohli vyhov\u011bt jejich pot\u0159eb\u00e1m a \u0159e\u0161it s nimi (pro n\u011b ) v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 situace.\tD\u00edvejte se na sv\u011bt d\u011btsk\u00fdm pohledemEmoce d\u00edt\u011bte jsou nestabiln\u00ed z toho d\u016fvodu, \u017ee si s nimi je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed poradit natolik, aby je mohlo potla\u010dit. Ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159\u00edpad, kdy nastane z jeho strany od\u016fvodn\u011bn\u00e1 a z t\u00e9 va\u0161\u00ed nesmysln\u00e1 vlna ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, by v\u00e1s m\u011bl p\u0159inutit k tomu, abyste hledali p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu vzniku jeho tr\u00e1pen\u00ed.Nau\u010dte se d\u00edvat na v\u011bc, kter\u00e1 va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b do\u017eene do stavu nep\u0159\u00ed\u010detnosti z jeho pohledu a jako dosp\u011bl\u00e1 osoba se mu sna\u017ete v klidu a rozumn\u011b vysv\u011btlit, \u017ee se d\u00e1 jeho z\u00e1le\u017eitost vy\u0159e\u0161it.Pomozte mu op\u011bt postavit jeho zni\u010den\u00fd sv\u011bt na nohy a ubezpe\u010dte ho v tom, \u017ee se nic ned\u011bje, a \u017ee mu pom\u016f\u017eete.\tOmezte napom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed a k\u0159ikVa\u0161e emoce sice kontrolovat u\u017e um\u00edte, ale p\u0159es to se v\u00e1m neda\u0159\u00ed je udr\u017eet na uzd\u011b v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco jinak, ne\u017e jste zvykl\u00ed. To, \u017ee v\u00e1m nep\u0159ipad\u00e1 norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, jak se chov\u00e1 je chybou ve va\u0161\u00ed hlav\u011b, kter\u00e1 v\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 sign\u00e1l k tomu, \u017ee to nen\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00e9. U\u017e jste zapomn\u011bli na to, jak\u00e9 to je b\u00fdt d\u00edt\u011btem? Vra\u0165te se ve sv\u00fdch vzpom\u00ednk\u00e1ch zp\u00e1tky a zopakujte si to. Va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b to skute\u010dn\u011b pot\u0159ebuje!V\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 napom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed a k\u0159ik v ka\u017ed\u00e9 situaci mu skute\u010dn\u011b nepom\u016f\u017ee v tom, aby bylo pochopen\u00e9. D\u00edt\u011b v\u0161eobecn\u011b ka\u017ed\u00e9 zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed hlasu, pl\u00e1cnut\u00ed po zadku nebo ustavi\u010dn\u00e9 vyk\u0159ikov\u00e1n\u00ed toho, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161e \u0161patn\u011b a nespr\u00e1vn\u011b nesn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed v\u016fbec dob\u0159e.Bu\u010fte proto v pozoru, kdy\u017e se ocitnete ve stavu dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho nepochopen\u00ed v\u016f\u010di va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti, kter\u00e9 tak d\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b najevo, \u017ee se mu n\u011bco nel\u00edb\u00ed. Vy jste rodi\u010d a vy m\u00e1te situaci uklidnit, ne ji vyhrotit tak, aby si to odneslo va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.5\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Sna\u017e\u00edte se sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b napom\u00ednat nebo i pochopit?","item":"https:\/\/www.welery.cz\/snazite-se-sve-dite-napominat-nebo-i-pochopit\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]